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Perfecting the soulmate search

Identifying a soul connection when dating online

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One of the hardest things to accomplish through the world of online dating is being able to identify a soul connection with a potential partner. Basically, in order to find your soulmate you want to uncover what positive characteristics they possess and whether this matches well with your own. Whereby in the world of traditional dating, where this is an easier task due to the immediate face to face interaction and instant responding that takes place, in the online world with delayed messaging and no face to face interaction this is much harder to identify. So how do you uncover desirable characteristics in the online world, where physical interaction is absent? Here are two tips on what to do:

Ask them if they want to join you in taking a personality test

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A fun activity and one that can reveal a lot about the other person is the completion of a personality test. Most notably the 16-personality test which is a popular, free test that can be taken by individuals and can reveal an interesting assessment of one’s personality.  Leading your potential partner to a google search for the ’16 personalities quiz’ will direct them to a wonderful accredited test that can reveal a lot about their personality due to the wide range of question they will need to answer to get a listed personality type. The resultant personality type that your potential partner reveals will then guide you to an idea about just what types of characteristics they possess and whether these traits match up well with your own.


Ask the right questions

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A lot of time in online conversation with a potential partner is spent conversing via email or chat. To ensure that you are not merely asking the mundane and that the questions you ask will help you identify whether your potential partner may be the one you need to ask the right questions. This can provide an added benefit of making your chat unique. Whereas the potential partner may be used to common questions in a chat with other online dating members, your questions will be unusual, colorful and more thought inducing. A simple google search for ‘questions to ask to identify the ideal soul mate’ will lead to a variety of pages with a range of questions to ask to gain an understanding whether the person is right for you.


Employing these techniques when chatting with your online friend may just help you gain a greater understanding of whether this person is one that will be worth pursuing.